先说爱的先不爱，后动的不死心

In love, the one who initiates feelings doesn"t guarantee a lasting connection. The latter, though slower to act, often clings on. It"s about understanding that initial attraction may fade, and true love comes from genuine connection and growth. Remember, saying "I love you" doesn"t mean forever. In the complex world of relationships, both parties should strive for meaningful connections without causing harm.